The 90 children who, after paying the lonely process of

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on the topic after 80 if they had never stopped, and friends in an article after it set off another round of 90 on the discussion focused on whether the child after 90 is alone.
I suddenly felt very sad reading.
said 90 children are lonely, we may assume that this proposition is correct. I think this should be in line with the views of many people. But this proposition which came out immediately to another question:
who is responsible for their loneliness, but also who can pay for their loneliness.
pay for them only to their own loneliness. this does not seem to exist any dispute, the dispute is Who they alone caused it?
We ask ourselves, these so-called adult, the child alone in the process of growing, what kind of played what role do?
we are in the waves. < br> might make the following analysis:
one: stay.
tide of reform and opening up, in some people off guard, some of them rich quickly up. widen the gap between rich and poor, so that some of the people walking, and gradually aware of the importance of the economy, and fully engaged them, and we just Shifengqikuai this generation has become the beach-goers under the tide of reform. The name behind the live, but it is brought about more crime and unlimited money needs. the child will naturally be released from the side, stay at home, became the so-called left-behind children. recent reports indicate that there are only about 2000 million rural children left behind.
father of these children are not without exception, , maternal warmth. and his father, the mother can not be simple, but important exchanges, only a day alone in facing the TV or computer screen, live day to day boring life, psychology began to be closed , consciously or unconsciously, will isolate ourselves, to become problem children alone.
II: Single.
caused by single-parent discussion of the reasons to go to look pale. but the single-parent families in recent years, the sudden flight soared is clearly not ready for many families. In this process, the children bear the brunt. The first single became the scapegoat for our reckless and rash to pay a heavy price.
single psychological impact on children is great. large, and we adults can not stop it can not predict the development.
single hit when the time is basically accompanying a child's psychological problems. It makes them often feel lonely, worried, disappointment, often depressed, impulsive temperament, personality withdrawn. this attitude if not corrected, over time, and it will distort the child personality, psycho, seriously affecting their emotions, will and character development; a psychologist once said, : The ultimate goal of our education what is it? our educational approach is what?
this series of questions, do not start so we can clearly see a main theme: utilitarian doping. It makes our Education white micro-flaws, lost their original innocence and noble, more of a secular and materialistic. In this kind of education their children have grown up under, and my heart is weightless, can not find the true direction in Utilitarian education gradually lost themselves, become misguided lamb, unfortunately: many of us do not realize the seriousness of the problem, but also by the conduct of our past, such as the utilitarian education. the kids still run around the long street in the utilitarian can not take into account the moral side, kind, sharing the beauty.
lose their isolation and make their own, too much emphasis on the power of individuals to the neglect of team building. The resulting loneliness and accompanied by a number of more serious heart problems .
analysis done here. We can very clearly to solve the problem.
not. is not our fuel to the flames, but the cause of our own growing isolation of the child. In contrast, we should the process of their pay alone, can we? We also recognize the courage? increasingly lost in the tide of our economy has long been accustomed to these, blindfolded by money we have already lost the issue of child in-depth thinking. We can not pay for them. one after all, to buy their own.
Although this tragedy is our own making.
2006-12-4
Yanzhou, Shandong