Tuesday, April 19, 2011

Just three things to teach a smart good boy

 Parents treat their children nothing less than the three conditions: First, every pipe, tube from time to time, to do a lot of things, the effect is not good; the second is that everything, do nothing, laissez-faire, indifferent The result is not good; third pipe, but also incomplete tube, do not much, but all to the point, the children grow up smoothly.
Obviously, Outstanding parents never have chosen
The first thing: to develop good parent-child relationship Good relationship is better than a lot of education. When parents and children a good relationship, their children's education leads to success; when a bad relationship with their children, their children's education are likely to fail. And establish a good parent-child relationship, the key is 1, improper
child's inner world rich parents to positively influence and educate their children, unaware of their inner world would be impossible. The first tip is to understand the child care of their self-esteem, maintain their rights, become a trusted and respected friend.
that parents treat their children to as
2, improper Both parents, the child can not be replaced, not the free hand to go when the So better able to help children build self-confidence, which is the core task of family education.
parents do the child's
3, inappropriate The role of the mirror is very important.
not do,
education is taught third, seventh and so on. For example, we look at a mosquito bite, whether it will soon be all right, if the total to scratch, yet they can be good for a long time. The reason is that the human body have a certain self-healing features yourself mosquito bite will get better soon, apply force would be counterproductive.
education is also the truth. Stop, wait, talk to the children's 机会, and children to communicate effectively, Buyong education can solve the problem.
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The second thing: to cultivate good habits of children Used to determine the fate of the child, without any more important than the habits. If parents do not pay attention to fostering children's good habits, no doubt, is buried the child a better future. 1,
everything from start to develop habits that education is a lifetime of education management. Intellectual habit of thinking is a good, moral behavior is a small, quality education is more reflected in the behavior of small people.
large number of facts prove that the power of habit is a tenacious, can dominate one's life. All children from the habits begin.
2, used to develop a habit of not a single day is a big problem
is great wisdom. Not a good habit in a day, its main principles are: low starting point, strict requirements, small steps, fast-paced, multi-activity, changes in demand, fast feedback, ground correction.
habits lies in the first three days, decided in a month. Parents should fully respect the rights of the child, let the children play in the habits of the owner role.
3, through the habits of education like the sea casting character
sailing, traveling the route must be correct, otherwise, the ship ran aground the greater the more the danger of sinking.
human quality, determines the direction of human development. Family education, a core task is to develop children to become a real person. However, the cultivation of personality is often difficult to put into concrete action up.
However, the researchers found that complementary habits and personality, habits of personality, personality will affect the habit. Decent, honest, responsible, caring, cooperation, efficiency, attention to character can be used to train through to casting.
The third thing: lead the children learning to learn attract children to love learning, to guide the children learn that learning is an important responsibility of parents is the real charm of the parents.
1, there are reasons for weariness children
laissez-faire attitude and let it cool; random tube blind tube, you reap what you bean; chatter chatter, wanton beatings; place arranged to create a If these unwise to take such will only make the child more and do not love learning.
kids do not love learning is only a superficial phenomenon, there must be reasons behind it: not to develop good study habits? not find the child do best? There is no scientific use of the brain? impede the child's parents to nature? is not aware of the child to learn something of his own ... ... to find the reasons behind it may help the child out of the shadow of weariness.
2, the child's curiosity and learning potential is the lack of intellectual curiosity excited
children, parental influence is usually not enough or strict, but blocked the child's interest.
interest (curiosity), dreams, achievement, challenge, Thanksgiving, strenuously, energies are all clear and inspire children's curiosity channel. For children, the so-called competitive advantage is the potential to be effective development only. Mood, resuscitation, suggesting, speculating, temper, plan is to stimulate children to learn the potential of the six principles.
potential development, although not absolute
3, first, there are ways to test children's

To test the first child, we must have some good way to have a decisive role, such as: completed as planned, careful writing, and slowly read a textbook, finishing the wrong question, readily notes, selfless help students, high efficiency test, essays and other freely.
Now many parents educate their children into a new issue of misunderstanding, that blind obedience and even obsessed with the so-called tutor to teach the child a successful experience, but listening to the experience easy, done. Because they do not
the most useful things really need to stop and think, refining. Parents educate their children not as complicated to imagine a good grasp of the parent-child relationships, habits, learning these three events, the parents become distinguished parents, children become an outstanding child, not a distant dream.

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